Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather than competitive goals.

The mostdramatic conflicts are perhaps, those that take place not between men butbetween a man and himself where the arena of conflict is a solitary mind.

Successis blocked by concentrating on it and planning for it ... Success is shy itwon't come out while you're watching.

It'sgood to shut up sometimes.

A merefriend will agree with you, but a real friend will argue.

Never play cat and mouse games if you are a mouse.

He who asks a question is a fool for five minutes; he who does not ask a questionremains a fool forever.

Neverforget the power of silence, that massively disconcerting pause which goes onand on and may at last induce an opponent to babble and backtrack nervously.

Necessitynever made a good bargain.

Life is progress from want to want, not from enjoyment to enjoyment.

Whetherit's the best of times or the worst of times, it's the only time we've got.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony