Thenumber one goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintaintheir self-esteem.

Changemeans movement. Movement means friction. Only in the frictionless vacuum of anonexistent abstract world can movement or change occur without that abrasivefriction of conflict.

We have no more right to consume happiness without producing it than to consume wealth without producing it

The onesure way to conciliate a tiger is to allow oneself to be devoured.

You made your bed, now lie in it.

This creative man, who in his own selfish affairs is a coward to the backbone, will fight for an idea like a hero.

The mostintense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security and calmthat is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts and theirconflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results.

Imaginationis the eye of your soul.

Everyone speaks well of his heart, but no one dares to say it of his dead.

You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you

Imagination grows by excercise and in more powerful in the mature rather than in the young.

The difficulty of speeches is what you are perpetually poised between the ciche and the indiscretion