It ishard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because weare not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creatinga new ‘pearl’ as we are in being right.

The most successful man in the life is the man who has the best information.

Makesure you leave some fat for the other side.

Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

A moment's insight is sometimes worth a life's experience

A manneed never revenge himself; the body of his enemy will be brought to his owndoor.

If an enemyis annoying you by playing well, consider adopting his strategy.

A half truth is a whole lie.

Only freemen can negotiate. Prisoners cannot enter into contracts. Your freedom andmine cannot be separated.

The hand of liberty is stronger than arms of power.

DonÆt let life discourage you; everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was