All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Thedirect use of force is such a poor solution to any problem,it is generally employed only by small children and large nations.

Don't throwout the baby with the bath water.

Themost important trip you may take in life is meeting people half way.

Consistencyis the hobgoblin of little minds.

Thereis no squabbling so violent as that between peoplewho accepted an idea yesterday and those who will accept the same ideatomorrow.

Speech is of time; silence is of eternity.

A good listener is not someone with nothing to say. A good listener is a good talkerwith a sore throat.

Treatpeople as if they were, what they ought to be andyou help them become what they are capable of being.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

I'vealways felt that a person's intelligence is directly reflected by the numberof conflicting points of view he can entertain simultaneously on the sametopic.

Manyspeak much who cannot speak well.