Whenmen and women agree, it is only in their conclusions; their reasons arealways different.

People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

It is no profit to have learned well, if you neglect to do well.

Power is no blessing in itself, except when it is used toprotect the innocent.

You'vegot to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em know, when to walk away, know when to run.

Every man is wanted; and no man is wanted much.

Love arrives on tiptoe and bangs the door when it leaves.

Sincerity is impossible, unless it pervades the whole being, and the pretence of it saps the very foundation of character

Thedeeper the waters are, the more still they run.

Themore adaptability exists for a given kind of decision, the less risky it isto make plans for the future, and therefore the more likely it is that morepeople will make more plans in such areas.

Thedirect use of force is such a poor solution to any problem,it is generally employed only by small children and large nations.

You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you