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All thingsat first appear difficult.

No doctor is a good doctor who has never been ill himself.

A quiettongue shows a wise head.

When our hearts are empty, we collect things.

Don'thate, it's too big a burden to bear.

All the power that we exercise over others depends on thepower we exercise over ourselves.

Adversityis the foundation of virtue.

The real great man is the man who makes every man feel great.

Everyoneis wise until he speaks.

Peoplewho can't admit they are part of the problem, will never be part of itssolution.

Thetruth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feelingdeeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in suchmoments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of ourruts and start searching for di