People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

If a man speaks or acts with pure thought, happiness follows him like a shadow that never leaves him

Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want totest a man's character, give him power.

The summit of happiness is reached when a person is ready to be what he is.

A hero is no braver than anyone else; he is only brave minutes longer

We thought, because we had power, we had wisdom.

If youcan make a man laugh, you can make him think and make him like and believeyou.

Marriagemeans expectations and expectations mean conflict.

Cooperativeconflict builds people up, strengthens their relationships, and gets thingsdone.

Anounce of mediation is worth a pound of arbitration and a ton of litigation!

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.

The greatest intelligence is precisely the one that suffers most from its own limitations.