The means by which we live have outdistanced the ends forwhich we live. Our scientific power has outrun our spiritual power. We haveguided missiles and misguided men.

People who can't admit they are part of the problem, willnever be part of its solution.

It iswith our brothers and sisters that we learn to love, share, negotiate, startand end fights, hurt others, and save face. The basis of healthy (orunhealthy) connections in adulthood is cast during childhood.

Not everything that is faced can be changed. But nothing can be changed until it is faced.

The exercise of power is determined by thousands ofinteractions between the world of the powerful and that of the powerless, allthe more so because these worlds are never divided by a sharp line: everyonehas a small part of himself in both.

Youcan't turn back the clock. But you can wind it up again.

Itmatters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Buyingis cheaper than asking.

Themost important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how toget along with people.

Conflictcan destroy a team which hasn't spent time learning to deal with it.

One ofthe lessons of history is that nothing is often a good thing to do and alwaysa clever thing to say.

Renown and repose do not go together.