Do notfind fault, find a remedy.

A lost battle is a battle one thinks one has lost.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Talkingcomes by nature, silence by wisdom.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.

To start blindly with a statement is a sign of arrogance and narrow-mindedness,and will lead to conflict. To start blindly with a question is a sign ofuncertainty and honesty, and will lead to wisdom.

Oursubconscious minds have no sense of humor, play no jokes, and cannot tell thedifference between reality and an imagined thought or image. What wecontinually think about eventually will manifest in our lives.

It is better to trust and sometimes be disappointed thanto be forever mistrusting and be right occasionally.

If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, youwouldn't sit for a month.

Few things help an individual more than to placeresponsibility upon him, and to let him know that you trust him.

Glory is a poison that can only be taken in small doses.

Keep things informal. Talking is the natural way to do business. Writing is greatfor keeping records and putting down details, but talk generates ideas. Greatthings come from our luncheon meetings which consist of a sandwich, a cup ofsoup, and a good idea