Only hethat has traveled the road knows where the holesare deep.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

What we seek we shall find, what we flee from flee from us.

Only few men think, but all have opinions.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

The aimof argument, or of discussion, should not be victory, but progress.

Passionsare generally roused by great conflicts.

Icannot divine how it happens that the man who knows the least is the mostargumentative.

Thetorment of human frustration, whatever its immediate cause,is the knowledge that the self is in prison, its vital force and ‘mangledmind’ leaking away in lonely, wasteful self-conflict.

We arejudged by what we finish, not what we start.

If youare leaning over to starboard to balance the boat against the other guy'spropensity to lean too far to port, both of you are about to get wet.

The ability to speak eloquently is not to be confused with having something tosay.