Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Well-managed,cooperative conflict contributes to the productivity and innovativeness oforganizations and the competence and well-being of people.

Byblending the breath of the sun and the shade, true harmony comes into theworld.

A hero is no braver than anyone else; he is only brave minutes longer

He who asks a question is a fool for five minutes; he who does not ask a questionremains a fool forever.

Arbitrary power is like most other things which are veryhard, very liable to be broken.

Of all the ways to make your fortune the quickest and the best is to make people see clearly how much is your success is in there interest

There isnothing more likely to start disagreement among people or countries than anagreement.

Conflictis neither good nor bad. Properly managed, it is absolutely vital.

To startblindly with a statement is a sign of arrogance and narrow-mindedness, andwill lead to conflict. To start blindly with a question is a sign ofuncertainty and honesty, and will lead to wisdom.

Everyone speaks well of his heart, but no one dares to say it of his dead.

It'snot hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.