Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Effectivecommunication is 20 percent what you know and 80 percent how you feel aboutwhat you know.

You can't change people, but you can channel them your way.

Nothing has happend to you unless you make much of it.

Much learning does not teach understanding.

He whohurries cannot walk with dignity.

In thebusiness world, everyone is always working at legitimate cross purposes,governed by self interest.

If Ihad six hours to chop down a tree, I'd spend the first hour sharpening the ax.

Duty largely consists of pretending that the trivial is critical

Cooperativeconflict builds people up, strengthens their relationships, and gets thingsdone.

Wisdom loves the children of men, but she prefers those who come through foolishness to wisdom

To beprepared is half the victory.