All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Failingto plan is planning to fail.

Bestill when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say whatyou've got to say, and say it hot.

Grantgraciously what you cannot refuse safely and conciliate those you cannotconquer.

Ourlives are not dependent on whether or not we have conflict. It is what we dowith conflict that makes the difference.

Power is the faculty or capacity to act, the strength andpotency to accomplish something. It is the vital energy to make choices anddecisions. It also includes the capacity to overcome deeply embedded habitsand to cultivate higher, more effective ones.

Assumptionof cooperative goals leads to viewing the conflict as a common problem to besolved for mutual benefit.

If twopeople on the same job agree all the time, then one is useless. If theydisagree all the time, then both are useless.

Real swaraj will come not by the acquisition of authority by a few but by the acquisition of capacity by all to resist authority when it is abused

Freedom suppressed and again regained bites with keener fangs that freedom never endangered.

A good listener is not someone with nothing to say. A good listener is a good talkerwith a sore throat.

Don'tjudge a book by its cover.