Themost important thing in communication is to hear what isn't being said.

Negotiatingmeans getting the best of your opponent.

Thetruth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feelingdeeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in suchmoments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of ourruts and start searching for di

The mostintense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security and calmthat is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts and theirconflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results.

Never trust the advice of a man in difficulties.

Religion is behaviour and not mere belief.

Itis all right if you talk to yourself. It is all right if you answer yourself.But when you start disagreeing with the answers, you've got a problem.

Consistencyis the hobgoblin of little minds.

Greatideas often receive violent opposition from mediocre minds.

Pleasure is by no means an infallible critical guide, but it is the least fallible.

When youhave to make a choice and you don't make it, that itself is a choice.

We do not err because the truth is difficult to see. We err because this is more comfortable