There arealways two forces warring against each other within us.

People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

Golf is an expensive way of playing marbles.

What wesee depends mainly on what we look for.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

It was impossible to get a conversation going, everybody was talking too much.

Zeal is fit only for wise men but is found mostly infools.

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather than competitive goals.

If you wish to make a man your enemy, tell him simply, 'You are wrong.' Thismethod works every time.

Power takes as ingratitude the writhing of its victims.

Aquarrel is like buttermilk: once it's out of the churn, the more you shakeit, the more sour it grows.

Tofight fear, act. To increase fear wait, put off, postpone.