Neverforget the power of silence, that massively disconcerting pause which goes onand on and may at last induce an opponent to babble and backtrack nervously.

Pleasant words are the food of love.

Toeffectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the waywe perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to ourcommunication with others.

Throughconflict we get to unity.

No one lies as much as the indignant do.

Cooperativeconflict builds people up, strengthens their relationships, and gets thingsdone.

A man has no ears for that to which experience has given no access.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

Whoever does not know the truth is ignorant, but the one who knows the truth but denies is a criminal

Thecourts of this country should not be the places where resolution of disputesbegins. They should be the places where the disputes end after alternativemethods of resolving disputes have been considered and tried.

To be wronged is nothing, unless you continue to remember it.

The ability to speak eloquently is not to be confused with having something tosay.