It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier tobe sometimes cheated than not to trust.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

If your mouth turns into a knife, it will cut off yourlips.

Bestill when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say whatyou've got to say, and say it hot.

Assumptionof cooperative goals leads to viewing the conflict as a common problem to besolved for mutual benefit.

They know enough who know how to learn.

Listeningwell is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well.

A man's ruin lies in his tongue.

The mostintense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security and calmthat is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts and theirconflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results.

Our patience will achieve more than our force.

Tobelieve in something, and not to live it, is dishonest.

Pleasant words are the food of love.