In aconflict, being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view toa viewing point a higher, moreexpansive place, from which you can see both sides.

A nation reveals itself not only by the men it honours, the men it remembers.

Drown not thyself to save a drowning man

If speaking is silver, then listening is gold.

This dualityhas been reflected in classical as well as modern literature as reason versuspassion, or mind versus intuition. The split between the ‘conscious’ mind andthe ‘unconscious.’ There are moments in each of our lives when ourverbal-intellect sugges

Quarrelsend, but words once spoken never die.

.Oneshould count each day a separate life.

Most ofour so-called reasoning consists in finding arguments for going on believingas we already do.

Theharder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph.

Talk back to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

We'reeyeball to eyeball and the other fellow just blinked.

You'rein a much better position to talk with people when they approach you thanwhen you approach them.