Thetorment of human frustration, whatever its immediate cause,is the knowledge that the self is in prison, its vital force and ‘mangledmind’ leaking away in lonely, wasteful self-conflict.

In thefield of observation, chance favors only theprepared minds.

In loving, you lean on some one to hold him up.

Zeal is fit only for wise men but is found mostly infools.

Wisdom loves the children of men, but she prefers those who come through foolishness to wisdom

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

The singlemost powerful tool for winning a negotiation is the ability to get up andwalk away from the table without a deal.

Beware,as long as you live, of judging people of appearances.

Quarrelsend, but words once spoken never die.

A man's ruin lies in his tongue.

Win/winis an attitude, not an outcome.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.
One ofthe best ways to persuade others is with your ears by listening to them.