The exercise of power is determined by thousands ofinteractions between the world of the powerful and that of the powerless, allthe more so because these worlds are never divided by a sharp line: everyonehas a small part of himself in both.

Thefibers of all things have their tension and are strained like the strings ofan instrument.

People who invite trouble always complain when it occurs.

Bytrying often, the monkey learns to jump from the tree.

Marriagemeans expectations and expectations mean conflict.

Work without faith is like at attempt to reach a bottom-less pit.

You can not help men permanantly by doing for them what they could do for themselves

Within-groupconflict is always personal and emotional even if it begins with impersonalissues.

Thereare two dilemmas that rattle the human skull: How do you hang on to someone whowon't stay? And how do you get rid of someone who won't go?

Somewherethere is a map of how it can be done.

Any man's death diminishes me, because i am involved in mankind; and, therefore, never tend to know for whom the bell tolls. It tolls for thee.

Sometimesone pays most for the things one gets for nothing.