Have adialogue between the two opposing parts and you will find that they alwaysstart out fighting each other until we come to an appreciation of difference... a oneness and integration of the two opposingforces. Then the civil war is finished, and your e

The exercise of power is determined by thousands ofinteractions between the world of the powerful and that of the powerless, allthe more so because these worlds are never divided by a sharp line: everyonehas a small part of himself in both.

Win/winis an attitude, not an outcome.

One cannot be precise and still be pure.

There are questions of real power and then there arequestions of phony authority. You have to break through the phony authorityto begin to fight the real questions of power.

If speaking is silver, then listening is gold.

The numberone goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain theirself-esteem.

A miserand a liar bargain quickly.

Compromise.Such an adjustment of conflicting interests as gives each adversary thesatisfaction of thinking he has got what he ought not to have, and isdeprived of nothing except what was justly his due.

Nothingso completely baffles one who is full of trick and duplicity himself, thanstraightforward and simple integrity in another.

You can't unscramble an egg.

When one tugs at a single thing in nature, he finds it attached to the rest of the world.