You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you

If necessityis the mother of invention, conflict is its father.

He who is overcautious will accomplish little.

In thebusiness world, everyone is always working at legitimate cross purposes,governed by self interest.

The wicked are not always clever, nor are dictators always right.

Whenelephants fight, it is the grass who suffers.

Democracy will break under the strain of apronstrings. It can exist only on trust.

Flatteryis the infantry of negotiation.

The rulers must be watched, not the ruled.

Unselfishness is more paying,only people have not the patience to practice it.

If twopeople on the same job agree all the time, then one is useless. If theydisagree all the time, then both are useless.

When youcannot make up your mind which of two evenly balanced courses of action youshould take choose the bolder.