All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Kindwords can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.

Power never takes a back step only in the face of morepower.

He whotalks incessantly, talks nonsense.

If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escapea hundred days of sorrow.

If wemanage conflict constructively, we harness its energy for creativity and development.

Alwaysforgive your enemies. Nothing annoys them so much.

Silenceis as full of potential wisdom and wit as the unshown marble of greatsculpture. The silent bear no witness against themselves.

Fortune makes a fool of him whom she favours too much

What dowe live for, if it is not to make life less difficult for each other.

Most of the shadows of this life are caused by our standing in our own sunshine.

Have adialogue between the two opposing parts and you will find that they alwaysstart out fighting each other until we come to an appreciation of difference... a oneness and integration of the two opposingforces. Then the civil war is finished, and your e