All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

If youare standing upright, don't worry if your shadow is crooked.

In aconflict, being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view toa viewing point a higher, moreexpansive place, from which you can see both sides.

No battle is more sorely lost that the one not fought

There is no knowledge that is not power.

So longas a man is angry he cannot be in the right.

Liberation is not deliverance.

Life, Like a child, laughs shaking its rattle of death as it runs.

He whohurries cannot walk with dignity.

Most of the shadows of this life are caused by our standing in our own sunshine.

Listening,not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.

The king goes as far as he may, not as far as he could.