The numberone goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain theirself-esteem.

A shipin harbor is safe, but that is not what ships arebuilt for.

Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…

Aquarrel is like buttermilk: once it's out of the churn, the more you shakeit, the more sour it grows.

Even a dog knows the difference between being stumbledover and being kicked.

Success is often the result of taking a mis-step in the right direction.

Whenour knowing exceeds our sensing, we will no longer be deceived by theillusions of our senses.

The Truly free man is one who know how to decline an invitation without giving an excuse.

We willbe known by the tracks we leave behind.

Humour is emotional chaos remembered in tranquility.

Silenceis as full of potential wisdom and wit as the unshown marble of greatsculpture. The silent bear no witness against themselves.

A danger forseen is half avoided.