If youcould kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, youwouldn't sit for a month.

Well-managed,cooperative conflict contributes to the productivity and innovativeness oforganizations and the competence and well-being of people.

Thereis no such thing as absolute value in this world. You can only estimate whata thing is worth to 'you.'

You may give gifts without caring, but you can't care without giving

Talkback to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

Silenceis argument carried out by other means.

Wecannot always control our thoughts, but we can control our words, andrepetition impresses the subconscious, and we are then master of thesituation.

Communicationis a skill that you can learn. It's like riding a bicycle or typing. Ifyou're willing to work at it, you can rapidly improve the quality of everypart of your life.

You can't unscramble an egg.

A man's real life is that accorded to him in the thoughtd other man by reason of respect or natural love.

Knowingthat everything's futile but still fighting, still raging against the dying ofthe light that's what motivates me all the time ... If you hold that sense offutility in your head for too long, it can begin to eat into you. You canstill be aware of it

A barking dog is often more useful than a sleeping lion.