If pain could have cured us, we should have long ago been saved.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

He whoangers you, conquers you.

Usenon-verbal communication to SOFTEN the hard-line position of others: S =Smile, O = Open, Posture, F = Forward Lean, T = Touch, E = Eye Contact, N =Nod.

You make a mountain of a mole-hill.

Thoroughnesscharacterizes all successful men. Genius is the art of taking infinite pains.All great achievement has been characterized by extreme care, infinitepainstaking, even to the minutest detail.

A man of great common sense and good taste-meaning there a man without originality or moral courage.

Friendships begin with liking or gratitude-roots that can be pulled up.

Accomplishmentof purpose is better than making a profit.

Artists can color the sky red because they know its blue.those of us who are not artists must color things the way they really are or people might think we are stupid.

Keep inmind that the better you understand what you want and why you want it, thebetter your chances will be of acquiring it.