He who asks questions cannot avoid the answers.

You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you willlive in torment if you don't trust enough.

You could forgive an enemy. It is harder to forgive yourself.

A half truth is a whole lie.

Every man is wanted; and no man is wanted much.

Duty largely consists of pretending that the trivial is critical

Theharder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph.

Never[enter] into dispute or argument with another. I never yet saw an instance ofone of two disputants convincing the other by argument. I have seen many ontheir getting warm, becoming rude and shooting one another.

Nevercut what you can untie.

Girls .. . were allowed to play in the house . . . and boys were sent outdoors. . .Boys ran around in the yard with toy guns going kksshh-kksshh,fighting wars for made-up reasons and arguing about whowas dead, while girls stayed inside and played with dol

Thepast is malleable and flexible, changing as our recollection interprets andre-explains what has happened.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony