The louder the talked of his honour, the faster we counted our spoons.

He who asks questions cannot avoid the answers.

If wemanage conflict constructively, we harness its energy for creativity and development.

The mostdramatic conflicts are perhaps, those that take place not between men butbetween a man and himself where the arena of conflict is a solitary mind.

You'rein a much better position to talk with people when they approach you thanwhen you approach them.

Almost all four faults are more pardonable than the methods we think up to hide them

Labour with what zeal we will. Something still remains undone.

Changemeans movement. Movement means friction. Only in the frictionless vacuum of anonexistent abstract world can movement or change occur without that abrasivefriction of conflict.

We areall inclined to judge ourselves by our ideals; others, by their acts.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Do good to your friend to keep him, and to your enemy to make him your freind.

He who gainsa victory over other men is strong; but he who gains a victory over himselfis all powerful.