People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

Byblending the breath of the sun and the shade, true harmony comes into theworld.

Do not judge, and you will never be mistaken

If necessityis the mother of invention, conflict is its father.

Myinterest is in the future because I'm going to be spending the rest of mylife there.

Speech is of time; silence is of eternity.

The measure of a man is what he does with power.

If speaking is silver, then listening is gold.

Mistakes are to Life what shadows are to Light.

Itis all right if you talk to yourself. It is all right if you answer yourself.But when you start disagreeing with the answers, you've got a problem.

All your fingernails grow with no convenient speed except broken one.

If wemanage conflict constructively, we harness its energy for creativity and development.