Speak whenyou are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret.

Zeal is fit only for wise men but is found mostly infools.

To know how to free oneself is nothing: the arduous thing is to know what to do with one's freedom.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

A happy home is one in which each spouse grants the possiblility that the other may be right, though neither believes it.

It is easier to discover deficiencies in indivuduals, states and providence than to see their real import and value.

As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.

Negotiatingin the classic diplomatic sense assumes parties are more anxious to agreethan to disagree.

Politicians are like ships; noisiest when lost in a fog.

Whenever I hear anyone arguing for slavery, I feel a strong impulse to see it tried onhim personally.

Ignoring is not the same thing as being tolerant

The aimof argument, or of discussion, should not be victory, but progress.