Only hethat has traveled the road knows where the holes are deep.

Far better to think historically, to remember the lessonsof the past. Thus, far better to conceive of power as consisting in part ofthe knowledge of when not to use all the power you have. Far better to be onewho knows that if you reserve the power not to

The soul would have no rainbow, if the eyes had no tears.

Conflictlies at the core of innovation.

Never play cat and mouse games if you are a mouse.

Communicationis a skill that you can learn. It's like riding a bicycle or typing. Ifyou're willing to work at it, you can rapidly improve the quality of everypart of your life.

It isdifficult to negotiate where neither will trust.

Aclosed mind is like a closed book; just a block of wood.

Power is a little like alcohol: the faster it is consumed, the more quickly it affects the brain.

Freedom can only be real if it is freedom for those think differently.

In aconflict, being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view toa viewing point a higher, moreexpansive place, from which you can see both sides.

Ourlives are not dependent on whether or not we have conflict. It is what we dowith conflict that makes the difference.