All the power that we exercise over others depends on thepower we exercise over ourselves.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.

Search not a wound too deep lest thou maketh a new one.

Listening,not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.

Assumptionof cooperative goals leads to viewing the conflict as a common problem to besolved for mutual benefit.

Love is the noblest frailty of the of the mind

What matter is not to add years to your life but to add life to your years.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

The Pursuit of perfection is the persuit of sweetness and light.

Be notdisturbed at being misunderstood; be disturbed at not understanding.

The liberty of the individual must be thus far limited: He must not make himself a nuisance to other people.

I give myself,sometimes, admirable advice, but I am incapable of taking it.