The true test of intelligence is not how much people know how to do, but how they behave when they don't know what to do.

It isthrough cooperation, rather than conflict, that your greatest successes willbe derived.

Believing that soom good can be derived from every event is a better preposition than that everything happens for the best, which is assuredly does not.

Commitmentin the face of conflict produces character.

Reasonand emotion are not antagonists. What seems like a struggle between twoopposing ideas or values, one of which, automatic and unconscious, manifestsitself in the form of a feeling.

Ittakes time to save time.

No manever did a designed injury to another, but at the same time he did a greaterto himself .

Silenceis foolish if we are wise, but wise if we are foolish.

Blessed are they who have nothing to say and who cannot be persuaded to say it.

It ishard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because weare not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creatinga new ‘pearl’ as we are in being right.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Conflictlies at the core of innovation.