Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

It is no profit to have learned well, if you neglect to do well.

Nomatter how thin you make a pancake, it always has two sides.

You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you willlive in torment if you don't trust enough.

Prayer changes things by changing people.

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather thancompetitive goals.

Fortune makes a fool of him whom she favours too much

The condition upon which God hath given liberty to man is eternal vigilance.

Silencemay be golden, but can you think of a better way to entertain someone than tolisten to him?

Let not thy will roar, when thy power can but whisper.

Somewherethere is a map of how it can be done.

It's notthe size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog.