The numberone goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain theirself-esteem.

Talk back to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

A goodplan is like a road map: it shows the final destination and usually the bestway to get there.

Little things console us because little things afflict us.

Maturityis the capacity to endure uncertainty.

The purpose of getting power is to be able to give itaway.

People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

If your mouth turns into a knife, it will cut off yourlips.

Being virtuous is no feat once temptation ceases.

Throughconflict we get to unity.

Human beings are not perfectible. They are improvable.

We cannot always control our thoughts, but we can control our words, and repetitionimpresses the subconscious, and we are then master of the situation.