Undernormal conditions, most people tend to see what they want to see, hear what theywant to hear, and do what they want to do; in conflicts, their positionsbecome even more rigid and fixed.

Sometimeswe have the dream but we are not ourselves ready for the dream. We have togrow to meet it.

It's notthe size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog.

Maturityis the capacity to endure uncertainty.

Don'tbargain for fish which are still in the water.

Beware,as long as you live, of judging people of appearances.

Humor is the affectionate communication of insight.

Lookingfor fish? Don't climb a tree.

Even a fish wouldn't get into trouble if it kept its mouth shut.

Girls .. . were allowed to play in the house . . . and boys were sent outdoors. . .Boys ran around in the yard with toy guns going kksshh-kksshh,fighting wars for made-up reasons and arguing about whowas dead, while girls stayed inside and played with dol

Conflictis neither good nor bad. Properly managed, it is absolutely vital.

A round egg can be made square according to how you cut it; words would be harsh according to how you speak them.