It is a lesson which all history teaches wise men, to puttrust in ideas, and not in circumstances.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Amarriage without conflicts is almost as inconceivable as a nation without crises.

Ifyou are leaning over to starboard to balance the boat against the other guy'spropensity to lean too far to port, both of you are about to get wet.

Well-managed,cooperative conflict contributes to the productivity and innovativeness oforganizations and the competence and well-being of people.

Freedom demands respect for the freedom of others.

The deeper the waters are, the more still they run.

A lie has no leg, but a scandel has wings

The power to do good is also the power to do harm.

There are three ways of bearing ills of life: by indifference, by philosophy, and by religion.

Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want totest a man's character, give him power.

When angry, count to ten before you speak; if very angry ahundred.