The directuse of force is such a poor solution to any problem, it is generally employedonly by small children and large nations.

All faults may be forgiven of him who has perfect candour

People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

Never answer a letter while you are angry.

Everyone speaks well of his heart, but no one dares to say it of his dead.

Every age thinks its battle the most important of all.

A peace which depends upon fear is nothing but a suppressed war.

Expreince never helps us avoid doing something foolish; it merely prevents us from enjoying it.

Remembernot only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficultstill, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.

Well-managed,cooperative conflict contributes to the productivity and innovativeness oforganizations and the competence and well-being of people.

Beautifullight is born of darkness, so the faith that springs from conflict is oftenthe strongest and the best.

Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret.