You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you

Human beings are not perfectible. They are improvable.

It is less dangerous to treat most men badly than to treat them too well.

Themost dramatic conflicts are perhaps, those that take place not between menbut between a man and himselfwhere the arena of conflict is a solitary mind.

A wide screen just makes a bad film twice as bad.

It isimpossible to defeat an ignorant man in argument.

Anounce of mediation is worth a pound of arbitration and a ton of litigation!

Assumptionof cooperative goals leads to viewing the conflict as a common problem to besolved for mutual benefit.

The average man’s life consists of: Twenty years of having his mother ask him where he is going, Forty years of having his wife ask the same question; and at the end, the mourners wondering too.

Keepthings informal. Talking is the natural way to do business. Writing is greatfor keeping records and putting down details, but talk generates ideas. Greatthings come from our luncheon meetings which consist of a sandwich, a cup ofsoup, and a good idea

Symanpathy is a supporting atmosphere, and in it we unfold easily and well

Itmatters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.