As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.

Onemight as well try to ride two horses moving in different directions, as totry to maintain in equal force two opposing or contradictory sets of desires.

Ifanyone is not willing to accept your point of view, try to see his point of view.

Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

It isdifficult to negotiate where neither will trust.

Themost intense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security andcalm that is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts andtheir conflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results.

Whoever is winning the race will always seem to be invincible.

Parents these days scarcely bring up children; they finance them.

I liketo listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most peoplenever listen.

We ownalmost all our knowledge not to those who have agreed but to those who havediffered.

Conflictlies at the core of innovation.

If you don't know where you're going, you'll end upsomewhere else.