If we shake hands with icy fingures, it is because we have burnt them so horribly before.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Wisdom is what you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred totalk.

In aconflict, being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view toa viewing point a higher, moreexpansive place, from which you can see both sides.

One cannot be precise and still be pure.

We do not err because the truth is difficult to see. We err because this is more comfortable

Anounce of mediation is worth a pound of arbitration and a ton of litigation!

Humality is a strange thing. The minute you think you've got it, you've lost it.

Our power is in our ability to decide.

Kindness it is that bring forth kindness.

Thereare two dilemmas that rattle the human skull: How do you hang on to someone whowon't stay? And how do you get rid of someone who won't go?

A matter that becomes clear ceases to concern us.