Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

Whatlies behind you and what lies in front of you, pales in comparison to whatlies inside of you.

To pushadvantages too far is neither generous nor just.

If necessityis the mother of invention, conflict is its father.

We gain freedom when we have paid full price for our right to live.

Thereare two dilemmas that rattle the human skull: How do you hang on to someone whowon't stay? And how do you get rid of someone who won't go?

Be your own judge and you will be happy.

Let not thy will roar, when the power can but whisper.

The more we see, the more we shall be able to imagine, and the more we imagine, the more we must think we see.

Onceyou consent to some concession, you can never cancel it and put things backthe way they are.

The purpose of getting power is to be able to give itaway.

Thecorrect strategy for Americans negotiating with Japanese or other foreignclients is a Japanese strategy:ask questions. When you think you understand, ask more questions. Carefullyfeel for pressure points.If an impasse is reached, don't pressure. Sugges