Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

Aclosed mind is like a closed book; just a block of wood.

You see what power is holding someone else's fear in your handand showing it to them!

Thereare two dilemmas that rattle the human skull: How do you hang on to someone whowon't stay? And how do you get rid of someone who won't go?

We have, I fear, confused power with greatness.

Learning must be had, but in the second place, as subsequent only to greater qualities.

Politeness is to human nature what warmth is to wax.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Whendealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic,but creatures of emotion.

He whotalks incessantly, talks nonsense.

Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

You canobserve a lot by just watching.