Have adialogue between the two opposing parts and you will find that they alwaysstart out fighting each other until we come to an appreciation of difference... a oneness and integration of the two opposingforces. Then the civil war is finished, and your e

Nevercut what you can untie.

Talkback to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

Makesure you leave some fat for the other side.

Optimists and pessimists have one fault in common: they are afraid of the truth.

Knowledge is of two kinds, we know a subject ourselves or we know where we can get information upon it.

If speakingis silver, then listening is gold.

It's notthe will to win, but the will to prepare to win that makes the difference.

To ask advice is in nine cases out of ten tout for flattery.

Lookingfor fish? Don't climb a tree.

Two prisonerswhose cells adjoin communicate with each other by knocking on the wall. Thewall is the thing which separates them but is also their means ofcommunication. It is the same with us and God. Every separation is a link.

It isthe acid test of nonviolence that in a nonviolent conflict there is no rancorleft behind, and in the end the enemies are converted into friends.