You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you

Welearn little from victory, much from defeat.

Patience is something you admire in the driver behind you and scorn in the one ahead.

The wise man reads both books and life itself.

No doctor is a good doctor who has never been ill himself.

We donot have to agree; we do need to understand.

Byfailing to prepare you are preparing to fail.

Adam and Eve had many advantages, but the principal one was tht they escaped teething.

Nothing destroys authority more than the unequal and untimelyinterchange of power stretched too far and relaxed too much.

Not work, but the thought that he must work is what makes the lazy man tired.

Youcannot truly listen to anyone and do anything else at the same time.

The exercise of power is determined by thousands ofinteractions between the world of the powerful and that of the powerless, allthe more so because these worlds are never divided by a sharp line: everyonehas a small part of himself in both.