Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Thepast is malleable and flexible, changing as our recollection interprets andre-explains what has happened.

The mostintense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security and calmthat is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts and theirconflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results.

It is better to trust and sometimes be disappointed thanto be forever mistrusting and be right occasionally.

In God we trust; all others pay cash.

Onlywhen you can be extremely pliable and soft can you be extremely hard andstrong.

Thefire you kindle for your enemy often burns yourself more than him.

What dowe live for, if it is not to make life less difficult for each other.

Pain is the outcome of sin.

To like and dislike the same thing, that is, indeed, friendship.

Work without faith is like at attempt to reach a bottom-less pit.

The highest pleasure to be got out of freedom, and having nothing to do, is labour