Experience is a hard teacher because SHE gives the test first, the lesson afterwards.

Don'tthrow out the baby with the bath water.

Thesearch for someone to blame is always successful.

A man's real life is that accorded to him in the thoughtd other man by reason of respect or natural love.

Beon a horse when you go in search of a better one.

In aconflict, being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view toa viewing point a higher, moreexpansive place, from which you can see both sides.

Itmatters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Well-managed,cooperative conflict contributes to the productivity and innovativeness oforganizations and the competence and well-being of people.

It isnot necessary to understand things in order to argue about them.

It's better to let someone think you are an Idiot than to open your mouth and prove it.

Given afair wind, we will negotiate our way into the Common Market, head held high,not crawling in. Negotiations? Yes. Unconditional acceptance of whateverterms are offered us? No.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony