Be notdisturbed at being misunderstood; be disturbed at not understanding.

Never ask a barber if you need a haircut.

He who asks questions cannot avoid the answers.

A teleision set is like a toaster. You press a button and the same thing pops up almost every time.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

A man has no ears for that to which experience has given no access.

Conflictis the gadfly of thought. It stirs us to observation and memory. Itinstigates to invention. It shocks us out of sheeplikepassivity, and sets us at noting and contriving.

There'sno point in arguing with partisan supporters. Their views are their identity.Nothing you can tell the most phlegmatic follower.

Don'twrestle a pig in a mud hole. You both get all dirty, and the pig enjoys it.

The great despisers are the greater reverers.

The numberone goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain theirself-esteem.

Onceyou consent to some concession, you can never cancel it and put things backthe way they are.