Conflict is neither good nor bad. Properly managed, it is absolutely vital.

A shipin harbor is safe, but that is not what ships are built for.

Ifyou wish to make a man your enemy, tell him simply, 'You are wrong.' Thismethod works every time.

Man must not check reason by tradition, but must check tradition by reason.

Listening,not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.

The hand of liberality is stronger than the arm of power.

Hold a true friend with both your hands.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

Onlywhen all contribute their firewood can they build up a strong fire.

We donot have to agree; we do need to understand.

There is all the difference in the world between having something to say and havingto say something.

If you are patient in a moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.