You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you

Conduct is wise or foolish only in reference to its results.

Don'tclose the barn door after the horse runs away.

Only hethat has traveled the road knows where the holes are deep.

Listening,not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.

Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and a blind can read.

Takeyour life into your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing, no one toblame.

Silenceis as full of potential wisdom and wit as the unshown marble of greatsculpture. The silent bear no witness against themselves.

In lifeprepare for the hard and all you will encounter will be the required or easy.

Outside noisy, inside empty.

Cooperativeconflict builds people up, strengthens their relationships, and gets thingsdone.

Whenyou cannot make up your mind which of two evenly balanced courses of actionyou should take choose the bolder.